| 1 month |
Lifts head when lying on tummy
Responds to sound
Stares at faces |
Follows objects briefly with eyes
Vocalizes: oohs and aahs
Can see black-and-white patterns |
Smiles, laughs
Holds head at 45-degree angle |
- Bouncers
- Diapers
- Wipes
- Rattles
- Soothers |
| 2 months |
Vocalizes: gurgles and coos
Follows objects across field of vision
Notices his hands
Holds head up for short periods |
Smiles, laughs
Holds head at 5-degree angle. Makes smoother movements |
Holds head steady
Can bear weight on legs
Lifts head and shoulders when lying on tummy (mini-pushup) |
| 3 months |
Recognizes your face and scent
Holds head steady
Visually tracks moving objects |
Squeals, gurgles, coos
Blows bubbles
Recognizes your voice
Does mini-pushup |
Rolls over, from tummy to back
Turns toward loud sounds
Can bring hands together, bats at toys |
- Activity center
- Light weight rattles
- Activity bars
- Soft stuffed animals
- Squeaky rubber toys
- Board books
- Colorful teething rings
- Activity quilts and play-mat |
| 4 months |
Smiles, laughs
Can bear weight on legs
Coos when you talk to him |
Can grasp a toy
Rolls over, from tummy to back |
Imitates sounds: "baba," "dada"
Cuts first tooth
May be ready for solid foods |
| 5 months |
Distinguishes between bold colors
Plays with his hands and feet |
Recognizes own name
Turns toward new sounds
Rolls over in both directions |
Sits momentarily without support
Mouths objects
Separation anxiety may begin |
| 6 months |
Turns toward sounds and voices
Imitates sounds
Rolls over in both directions |
Is ready for solid foods
Sits without support
Mouths objects
Passes objects from |
Lunges forward or starts crawling
Jabbers or combines syllables
Drags objects toward himself |
- Busy Board
- Soft dolls or stuffed animals
- Hosehold items
- Wood or soft blocks
- Moving toys
- Books |
| 7 months |
Sits without support.
Drags objects toward herself |
Lunges forward or starts Jabbers or combines syllables
Starts to experience stranger |
Waves goodbye Stands while holding onto something
Bangs objects together
Begins to understand object permanence |
| 8 months |
Says "mama" and "dada" to both parents (isn't specific)
Passes objects from hand to hand |
Stands while holding onto something
Crawls
Points at objects
Searches for hidden objects |
Pulls self to standing, cruises
Picks things up with thumb-finger. Indicatepincer grasps wants with gestures |
| 9 months |
Stands while holding onto something
Jabbers or combines syllables
Understands object permanence |
Cruises while holding onto furniture
Drinks from a sippy cup
Eats with fingers
Bangs objects together |
Plays patty-cake and peek-a-boo
Says "mama" and "dada" to the correct parent |
- Push Toys
- Shape Sorters
- Balls
- Toy telephone
- Books
- Blocks
- Pail & shovel |
| 11 months |
Says "mama" and "dada" to the correct parent
Plays patty-cake and peek-a-boo
Stands alone for a couple of seconds
Cruises |
Understands "no" and simple instructions
Puts objects into a container |
Says one word besides "mama" and "dada"
Stoops from standing position |
| 12 months |
Imitates others' activities
Indicates wants with gestures |
Takes a few steps
Says one word besides "mama" and "dada" |
Walks alone
Scribbles with a crayon
Says two words besides "mama" and "dada" |
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| 13 months |
Uses two words skillfully (e.g., "hi" and "bye")
Bends over and picks up an object |
Enjoys gazing at his reflection
Holds out arm or leg to help you dress him |
Combines words and gestures to make needs known
Rolls a ball back and forth |
- SCRIBBLE TOYS
- Large building bricks/blocks
- Push n pull toys
- Sorting n nesting toys
- Climbing gym
- Balls
- Washable Crayons/papers
- Ride one vehicles
- Tool bench or toy kitchen
- Picture book |
| 14 months |
Eats with fingers
Empties containers of contents
Imitates others |
Toddles well
Initiates games
Points to one body part when asked
Responds to instructions (e.g., "give me a kiss") |
Uses a spoon or fork
Matches lids with appropriate containers
Pushes and pulls toys while walking |
| 15 months |
Plays with ball
Uses three words regularly
Walks backward |
Scribbles with a crayon
Runs
Adopts "no" as his favorite word |
"Helps" around the house
Puts his fingers to his mouth and says "shhh" |
| 16 months |
Turns the pages of a book
Has temper tantrums when frustrated
Becomes attached to a soft toy or other object |
Discovers the joy of climbing
Stacks three blocks
Uses spoon or fork
Learns the correct way to use common objects (e.g., the telephone) |
Takes off one piece of clothing by himself
Gets finicky about food
Switches from two naps to one |
| 17 months |
Uses six words regularly
Enjoys pretend games
Likes riding toys |
Feeds doll
Speaks more clearly
Throws a ball underhand |
Dances to music
Sorts toys by color, shape, or size
Kicks ball forward |
| 18 months |
Will "read" board books on his own
Scribbles well |
Strings two words together in phrases
Brushes teeth with help
Stacks four blocks |
Throws a ball overhand
Takes toys apart and puts them back together
Shows signs of toilet training readiness |
| 19 months |
Uses a spoon and fork
Runs
Throws a ball underhand
Enjoys helping around the house |
Understands as many as 200 words
Recognizes when something is wrong (e.g., calling a dog a cat) |
Washes and dries own hands with help
Points to picture or object when you call it by name May know when she needs to pee |
18-24months
-plastic tea set or play house
- Large n Small blocks
-Toy Instruments
-Puzzles
-Illustrated books n cassette tapes
- train sets
- washable crayon n paper |
| 20 months |
Feeds doll
Takes off own clothes
Dumps an object in imitation, such as throwing garbage away |
Learns words at a rate of ten or more a day
Can walk up stairs (but probably not down) |
May start exploring genitals
Draws a straight line
Names several body parts |
| 21 months |
Can walk up stairs
Able to set simple goals (e.g., deciding to put a toy in a certain place) |
Throws a ball overhand
Kicks ball forward
Stacks six blocks |
Names simple picture in a book
Can walk down stairs |
| 22 months |
Kicks ball forward
Follows two-step requests (e.g., "Get your doll and bring it here") |
Does simple puzzles
Draws a straight line
Names several body parts |
Puts on loose-fitting clothes
Might be ready for a big bed
Understands opposites (e.g., tall vs. short) |
| 23 months |
Names simple picture in a book
Uses 50 to 70 words |
Opens doors
Sings simple tunes
Takes more of an interest in playing with other kids |
Talks about self (likes, dislikes)
Asks "why?" |
| 24 months |
Names at least six body parts
Half of speech is understandable
Makes two- to three-word sentences |
Talks about self
Arranges things in categories
Can walk down stairs |
Begins to understand abstract concepts (e.g., sooner and later)
Becomes attuned to gender differences
Learns to jump |
- ride on toys
- Balls
- Art Supplies
- Percussive instruments
- dress up clothes
- child sized house hold equipments
- construction toys
- puzzles and manipulatives |
| 25 & 26 months |
Stacks six blocks
Walks with smooth heel-to-toe motion |
Uses pronouns (e.g., I, me, you)
Washes and dries own hands |
Speaks clearly most of the time
Draws a vertical line |
| 27 & 28 months |
Jumps with both feet
Opens doors |
Understands descriptions (e.g., big, soft)
Draws a vertical line |
Starts to recognize ABCs.
Balances on one foot |
| 29 & 30 months |
Brushes teeth with help
Washes and dries own hands
Draws a vertical line |
Draws a circle
Balances on one foot |
Puts on a T-shirt
Names one color
Names one friend |
- Tricycle
- Wagon
- Art supplies
- Play kitchen
- Sand toys
- Books
- Bath toys
- Large construction blocks
- Pull toys
- Puzzles
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| 31 & 32 months |
Recites own name
Draws a circle |
Puts on a T-shirt
Balances on each foot for a second
Recognizes ABCs
Brushes teeth by herself |
Uses two adjectives
Draws a cross
Points to objects described by use |
| 33 & 34 months |
Names one color
Names one friend
Carries on a simple conversation |
Alternates feet going up and down stairs
Uses prepositions (e.g., on, in, over)
Speaks clearly most of the time (75 percent can be understood)
Stacks eight blocks |
Is toilet trained during the day
Wiggles thumb
Expresses a wide range of emotions.
Draws a stick figure |
| 35 & 36 months |
Describes how two objects are used
Uses three to four words in a sentence
Names two actions (e.g., skipping, jumping) |
Hops and skips
Follows a two- or three-part command
Separates fairly easily from parents
Rides a tricycle |
Balances on each foot for three seconds
Gets dressed without help |
| 3 years |
Are you eagerly awaiting the major milestones your child will hit this year? The good news: There are several. Your preschooler will probably be a chatterbox intent on telling stories. Typically, though not always, by ages 3 to 4, children have mastered potty training and overcome separation anxiety. These gains in independence are marked by your child's ability to make friends with other kids his age and increased skill at doing things for himself, such as dressing, washing, and brushing his own teeth. |
Having a 3-year-old can make you proud and completely nuts all at the same time. Because your child's verbal skills and physical abilities have expanded so much since her wobbly 2-year-old days, it's easy to fall into the trap of expecting more from her than she can always deliver. Progress is gradual. Although preschoolers sound and look capable of much more now, social and emotional maturity take time to develop — and that means lots of patience on your part. She still has faulty logic and a healthy ego. She thinks the world revolves around her — as it should at this age. |
Imagination is the operative word when it comes to 3-year-olds. At this stage, toddlers love to pretend, enjoy creating new things, and are in full control of their physical skills |
Gifts for a 3year old
- Play sets (Dollhouse, Farm, etc.)
- Art kits
- Construction Toys
- Dress-up box
- Books
- Doctor's kits
- Memory games
- Beauty set
- Playground toys
- Dress-up dolls |
| 4 years |
It's never too early to help your child become a reader. But at this stage it's more important to teach your preschooler to love books and stories than it is to worry about teaching your child the mechanics of reading. Here are 12 things you can do to help your pre-reader get off to a good start:
Use books to bond. Make reading time special for you and your child. Set up a routine and pick a favorite "book nook" — a comfortable place to read. Bedtime stories are traditional, but think about other times of the day you and your child can share books, such as over breakfast, during bath time, or after preschool.
Talk about the pictures. Words aren't the main attraction for pre-readers. Pick out books with vibrant colors and beautiful pictures, and talk about the illustrations with your child. When you're reading the story aloud, stop once in a while to discuss the picture and how it relates to the story. This prepares your child for the early reading stage, when she'll use pictures for clues about what each page says.
Model good behavior. Your child wants to be like you. Read around your child. Don't wait until after bedtime to dive into your novel. When you're reading mail, shopping lists, notes, or catalogs, share what you're reading with your child.
When you read to your child, read with expression. Show her that books can come to life. Get silly. Make animal noises. Toot and make chug-chug noises when you read The Little Engine That Could. Be loud and soft and everything in between. Sing part of the book if you're in the mood. Ask her to do the same when reading books to you.
Point to the words as you read. Pre-readers are learning the basics: that print runs left to right and top to bottom, for example, and that books have a cover and a back. Emphasize the parts of the book by showing your child the cover and following the words you read with your finger.
Find books that relate to your child's interests. Introduce your child to books about a variety of subjects: dinosaurs, cars, fairy godmothers, movie stars and rock stars, magic tricks, and so on. Help your child find exciting books that appeal to her current interests. You might not want to read a Teletubbies or Barney book again and again, but your child will love it.
Talk about a book as you read it. Even before your child can read, you can start building comprehension skills. Talk with your child about a book: "What do you think this book is about?" "What's he doing in this picture?" "What do you think he'll do next?" This is especially fun when your child has a favorite book and can "predict" what's going to happen.
Read everywhere you go. You'll show your child that reading is an important part of everyday life. When you see a stop sign or other familiar sign, read it out loud: "S, T, O, P. That says stop!" Read store signs, menus, everything you see. Encourage your child to "read" familiar signs. This will reinforce her sense of mastering reading.
Make books part of everyday life, not a special treat. Don't tell your child she can listen to a story only if she finishes her dinner. When reading is associated with systems of reward and punishment, it loses its appeal. Instead, pick times to read that feel natural and fun for you and your child.
Go with the flow. Don't make your child sit through a book if she's restless. As your child gets older, her attention span will increase. |
- Bikes
- Scooters
- Laptops
- Realistic role plays
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| Age 5 |
Are you eagerly awaiting the major milestones your child will hit this year? The good news: There are several. Your kindergartner will speak clearly in full sentences and generally use the right words to indicate what she means. Kids this age are usually completely self-sufficient in the bathroom, and many can tie their own shoelaces. Your child will also become much more independent. Adults (such as teachers) and her peers will play an increasingly important role in her life as she becomes more social.
Cognitive development
Talking milestones
What to expect your kindergartner to achieve by the end of the year:
- Uses past, present, and future tenses accurately
- Recalls and can repeat a sentence of at least eight words
Talks in complex sentences that often run together
Social and emotional development
What to expect your kindergartner to achieve by the end of the year shows more interest in peers and adults outside of the family. Tests the limits of her independence — sometimes to the point of being rude |
- Bikes
- Scooters
- Laptops
- Realistic role plays |
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